Dilip Muralidaran

A pretty gal will give you when you hint of a relationship…

1. Nee enakku anna madiri (You are like my elder brother, in tamil…)
2. My parents wont agree to this (However, they do agree things like low rise jeans, belly piercing and pick up and drop services of nice guys)
3. We wont get along (Psychiatrist advice!)
4. I’m not ready to get into a relationship as of now (but i will message u as a FRIEND, 58 times a day…)
5. We dont have much in common (Your friend looks hotter…)
6. You will find someone way better than me (you ain’t good enough for me loser!)
7. I have different expectations (You need to be a NRI making money in Dollars or Pounds)
8. Lets be friends (I still need you to pick me up and drop me home safe whenever required since i dont have a car nor a driver)
9. I already have a boyfriend (i just changed a month back, you turn will come soon)

and last but not the least, the most famous one…

10. I trusted you! (im still trying to figure out what the heck this implies )

A pretty gal will give you when you hint of a relationship…

1. Nee enakku anna madiri (You are like my elder brother, in tamil…)
2. My parents wont agree to this (However, they do agree things like low rise jeans, belly piercing and pick up and drop services of nice guys)
3. We wont get along (Psychiatrist advice!)
4. I’m not ready to get into a relationship as of now (but i will message u as a FRIEND, 58 times a day…)
5. We dont have much in common (Your friend looks hotter…)
6. You will find someone way better than me (you ain’t good enough for me loser!)
7. I have different expectations (You need to be a NRI making money in Dollars or Pounds)
8. Lets be friends (I still need you to pick me up and drop me home safe whenever required since i dont have a car nor a driver)
9. I already have a boyfriend (i just changed a month back, you turn will come soon)

and last but not the least, the most famous one…

10. I trusted you! (im still trying to figure out what the heck this implies )

Check out this song by DJ Limmer. Its a cover version of Westlife’s song…

Another day without your smile
Another day just passes by
But now i know how much it means
For you to stay right here with me
The time we spent apart will make our love grow stronger
But it hurts so bad i can’t take it any longer

I wanna grow old with you
I wanna die lying in your arms
I wanna grow old with you
I wanna be looking in your eyes
I wanna be there for you, sharing everything you do
I wanna grow old with you

A thousand miles between us now
It causes me to wonder how
Our love tonight remains so strong
It makes our risk right all along
The time we spent apart will make our love grow stronger
But it hurt so bad i can’t take it any longer

I wanna grow old with you
I wanna die lying in your arms
I wanna grow old with you
I wanna be looking in your eyes
I wanna be there for you, sharing everything you do
I wanna grow old with you

Things can come and go
I know but
Baby I believe
Something’s burning strong between us
Makes it clear to me

I wanna grow old with you
I wanna die lying in your arms
I wanna grow old with you
I wanna be looking in your eyes
I wanna be there for you, sharing everything you do
I wanna grow old with you

I wanna die lying in your arms
I wanna grow old with you
I wanna be lookin in your eyes
I wanna be there for you, sharing everything you do
I wanna grow old with you.

Check out this song by DJ Limmer. Its a cover version of Westlife’s song…

Another day without your smile
Another day just passes by
But now i know how much it means
For you to stay right here with me
The time we spent apart will make our love grow stronger
But it hurts so bad i can’t take it any longer

I wanna grow old with you
I wanna die lying in your arms
I wanna grow old with you
I wanna be looking in your eyes
I wanna be there for you, sharing everything you do
I wanna grow old with you

A thousand miles between us now
It causes me to wonder how
Our love tonight remains so strong
It makes our risk right all along
The time we spent apart will make our love grow stronger
But it hurt so bad i can’t take it any longer

I wanna grow old with you
I wanna die lying in your arms
I wanna grow old with you
I wanna be looking in your eyes
I wanna be there for you, sharing everything you do
I wanna grow old with you

Things can come and go
I know but
Baby I believe
Something’s burning strong between us
Makes it clear to me

I wanna grow old with you
I wanna die lying in your arms
I wanna grow old with you
I wanna be looking in your eyes
I wanna be there for you, sharing everything you do
I wanna grow old with you

I wanna die lying in your arms
I wanna grow old with you
I wanna be lookin in your eyes
I wanna be there for you, sharing everything you do
I wanna grow old with you.

Goodbye Love…
Originally uploaded by Dilip Muralidaran

After a Long time, after years….. i thought of someone today, well actually i cried for this someone today.

Someone who will no longer be in the lime light. Someone who we need badly and someone whom we will not have anymore.

I cried, till i could not cry anymore. There is little hope and joy left in me today.

Good bye Kalam, i dont want u to go but these congress whores wont stop at nothing to bring you down.

You are probably the very first person i have cried for apart from the loss of a family or a friend or a very loved one. I believe you mean much more to me now than anything else meant before you inspired me.

Goodbye Love…
Originally uploaded by Dilip Muralidaran

After a Long time, after years….. i thought of someone today, well actually i cried for this someone today.

Someone who will no longer be in the lime light. Someone who we need badly and someone whom we will not have anymore.

I cried, till i could not cry anymore. There is little hope and joy left in me today.

Good bye Kalam, i dont want u to go but these congress whores wont stop at nothing to bring you down.

You are probably the very first person i have cried for apart from the loss of a family or a friend or a very loved one. I believe you mean much more to me now than anything else meant before you inspired me.

Green Croten
Originally uploaded by Dilip Muralidaran

If you are into Macro Photography you HAVE to read this review of the Canon EF 100MM Macro USM Lens.

My friend Richard wrote this wonderful detailed piece of an article which is a gem of a resource to any Canon DSLR user and anyone considering buying Canon Camera’s, lenses.

Green Croten
Originally uploaded by Dilip Muralidaran

If you are into Macro Photography you HAVE to read this review of the Canon EF 100MM Macro USM Lens.

My friend Richard wrote this wonderful detailed piece of an article which is a gem of a resource to any Canon DSLR user and anyone considering buying Canon Camera’s, lenses.

I mean if you can appreciate the concept of “Arranged Marriage” then why not legalize prostitution too?

Lets make a comparative analysis…

In a Brothel…

1. You don’t know the woman you’re going to sleep with until very recently before it happens…
2. You pay a sum of money in exchange for the service of sex (which is illegal as per the law)
3. You probably check if the whore you are going to sleep with has HIV and use condoms kind of contraceptives as a precautionary measure.
4. You get what you pay for, no more and no less.
5. Nobody can abuse nobody, you get pounded by the pimps/bouncer’s if you mess with a call girl.

In an Arranged Marriage…

1. You don’t know the man/woman you are going to live with until recently the wedding happens, not certainly as a person. May be as a personality, there is a difference.
2. You may a sum of money called dowry (hell yes, it still exists) or it’s covered up as kind rather than cash in modern times. (which is illegal as per the law)
3. You can’t ask your fiancée for a clean chit health certificate, you will be labeled a crook if you even suggest it.
4. You don’t have a clue about shit that you are getting into.
5. Abuse is the name of the game. Most of the times, husband gets his way with the wife. Wife can’t say shit because she has to accept the husband no matter what to adhere to the Indian cultural values.

Now tell me, in what way is a brothel inferior to arranged marriage? If it is not then why not legalize it?

I mean if you can appreciate the concept of “Arranged Marriage” then why not legalize prostitution too?

Lets make a comparative analysis…

In a Brothel…

1. You don’t know the woman you’re going to sleep with until very recently before it happens…
2. You pay a sum of money in exchange for the service of sex (which is illegal as per the law)
3. You probably check if the whore you are going to sleep with has HIV and use condoms kind of contraceptives as a precautionary measure.
4. You get what you pay for, no more and no less.
5. Nobody can abuse nobody, you get pounded by the pimps/bouncer’s if you mess with a call girl.

In an Arranged Marriage…

1. You don’t know the man/woman you are going to live with until recently the wedding happens, not certainly as a person. May be as a personality, there is a difference.
2. You may a sum of money called dowry (hell yes, it still exists) or it’s covered up as kind rather than cash in modern times. (which is illegal as per the law)
3. You can’t ask your fiancée for a clean chit health certificate, you will be labeled a crook if you even suggest it.
4. You don’t have a clue about shit that you are getting into.
5. Abuse is the name of the game. Most of the times, husband gets his way with the wife. Wife can’t say shit because she has to accept the husband no matter what to adhere to the Indian cultural values.

Now tell me, in what way is a brothel inferior to arranged marriage? If it is not then why not legalize it?