I’m seriously wondering, when on earth did the word “NO” become a luxury to be used so scarcely? Off late i find people using this very less. Maybe its just me or maybe its the norm or maybe in not in sync with times but this is what is happening.
You walk up to a friend, you scrap em on orkut or send a msg and ask them if they would care to join you out on a weekend plan or a simply day hanging out to kill boredom and the response you get is unbelievable.
I know that a “NO” or a “No Thanks” is a perfect response for every simple situation regardless of the person, place and time involved in any situation. Yet what you get is a direct insult like a “poda vennai”, “onakku vera velaye illaya?” or rude upper case shouting to state a simple negative response such as a no. I wonder what part of me is that makes them feel im so cheap enough to take this kind of a treatment.
The fact in reality however is that i take this treatment and pretend as if nothing happens. Often the lame excuse is that i say “people always need a second chance” but truth is i need an excuse. You have to draw a line, if you get rid of every one around you because they don’t respond to you like you expect them to then loneliness is the only company you can have.
Isolation is a heaven to visit and a hell to stay.
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