Saw you on Life and Times of an Indian Homemaker. I definitely recognize the struggle that you're dealing with. It's really frustrating.
I wrote this story a few months ago that is totally romantic fantasy, very unrealistic, but your post reminded me of it in a way.
http://paradevo.net/simplemachinesforum/index.php?topic=60.0
Some of my views(abt MF Hussain,Secularism in India,MK etc etc) are reflecting me like an mirror even given with evidence. Hats off to you.
I very happy tat even some of my views r justified with evidence and to know there are few people who can think right and analyse things...